The water rises, the music swells, and for the first time all week, nobody in your family is looking at a phone. Your father has one hand resting on his grandson’s shoulder. Your fifteen-year-old has forgotten to be embarrassed by any of you. And you, the one who planned every carpool, every recital, and every […]

Your daughter will hold out her palm on the lanai tonight, and it will glitter. Those tiny grains of black glass were once molten rock. They are the magic of the colored sand beaches Hawaii keeps along its shores. They are also the reason one photo on her tablet can turn into the stop she […]

Somewhere around the fourteenth browser tab, most mothers planning a Galapagos trip hit the same wall. There are thirteen major islands, six smaller ones, and more than a hundred islets. Not one guide will tell her which island her kids should wake up on. Here is the honest answer. The best Galapagos island for families […]

Here is what no one tells you before you book: Most families finish the Christmas market on their Christmas market cruise before lunch. The kids are sticky with gingerbread. Your mother has claimed a bench beside the cathedral with a warm mug cradled in both hands. Your teenager is eyeing a row of carved nutcrackers […]

Somewhere around the second afternoon, most parents finally stop bracing for the meltdown that never comes. That is the quiet surprise sitting underneath every Netherlands family vacation: The trip you expected to manage becomes the trip you get to enjoy instead. You packed the spare shirt. You packed the tablet loaded with three seasons of […]

Your child will study one of the most impressive glaciers in North America for about four minutes before asking what’s for lunch. I learned this while standing in front of Mendenhall Glacier, watching a child take in a wall of blue ice with roughly the same enthusiasm he usually reserves for a rest stop. And […]

Nobody warns you that planning a family trip to Montreal turns your kitchen table into a small, loving war zone. One person wants a Ferris wheel. One wants a nap. A teenager will not budge unless there is decent Wi-Fi and something worth posting. I have sat at that exact table more than once, holding […]

“Can my three-year-old and my mother-in-law truly enjoy the same island at the same time?” That was the question a client asked me last spring, after spending weeks having no idea how to make the days work for everyone. It is the question at the heart of nearly every family vacation in Maui itinerary I […]

Nobody dreams about standing in a roped off line for forty-five minutes just to take the same photo three hundred people took before breakfast. Nobody books a flight, packs three generations of luggage, and coordinates six different work schedules so that everyone can spend the trip elbow to elbow with strangers, waiting their turn to […]

Somewhere between booking her mother’s plane ticket and typing “can a nine year old handle a five hour car ride” into Google at eleven at night, every woman planning a multigenerational trip to Scotland hits the same wall: Will this trip work for everyone, or will someone come home exhausted instead of happy? I think […]